Wonderful Ideas On Having A Second Baby Shower
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Baby showers are one of the best ways for new moms and dads to get everything the need to start off on the right foot. It’s a time-honored way for the parents’ friends and family to show that they can count on their support. For some people, holding a shower for a second baby was not considered proper, as the parents probably already had most of the items they needed. However, having a second-baby shower is still appropriate, if you make certain adjustments.
Instead of a full shower, you could host a mini-shower, where guests only bring those necessities that every baby has to have - bath accessories, undershirts, diapers, etc. You can also make a list of whatever the parents say they need but did not receive with their first child. Another idea is to have a shower dedicated to the mom, where guests bring gifts that will help her relax during the last weeks of her pregnancy and after the birth. These items can be both useful and a treat for mom, like extra soft slippers for the long night’s she’ll spend getting in and out of bed.
You might want to make the shower focused on mom, reminding her that she will not be pregnant forever with gifts like wine or her favorite hard liquor, or savory salty snacks she may have had to give up. You can also pool your money together to purchase gift certificates for spa treatments or an elegant dinner, though if you can prearrange babysitting, even better. You can also have a strategic meeting with the father-to-be and the closest friends and family of the mom before the party, in order to make up a helping hands calendar.
Some tasks that you could arrange for include getting the house organized and laundry done so mom and baby can come home to a clean house, helping transport the older child to his/her activities, or going along to help out on a big grocery or warehouse club run. You can then give mom the finished calendar at the shower, with all the contact information in case of changes. It may be that both mom and the baby in fact don’t need anything new. Or, consider having a simple party, featuring good food, music, and the mom’s loved ones.
An optional activity is to have guests purchase small baby items and then donate them to a local shelter or charity. You might also ask everyone to bring small portions of prepared food that can be frozen or stored (this is known as a “freezer party”). This will definitely help out mom in the last days before her due date and also those following the birth. It is important to hold this shower quite close to the due date, of course, and to be sure that the mom has enough freezer or storage space to make it work.
Finally, if the new baby is going to be several years younger than the next-oldest sibling (a so-called “caboose” baby), you can feel free to host a full-on baby shower. A lot of moms and dads won’t likely have even the big items (cribs, etc.), anymore, or they could be outdated in terms of safety requirements.
And remember, even if the baby shower is a small one or doesn’t feature enormous gifts, the whole reason you are there is to simply show the mom that she and her new baby are cared for.
Thank you for reading our article, for more info check out baby shower invitations, baby shower centerpieces and baby shower games. Much thanks and gave a great day!
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Mar 11 2010